And the issue is so much bigger than simply being a good citizen and following the rules of the “10 items or Less” grocery line. Giving large sums of money to one cause or to the person on the corner will affect one’s ability to help others in the future. Spending hours listening to the same unchanging complainers detracts from time left for others.
Some people can actually be unkind by attempting to be kind! The Golden Rule is being acted out in many of our daily decisions. There are people to consider behind us besides the ones right in front of us. That can apply to major life decisions impacting family and friends. It may involve family life, business, church and citizenship decisions. The people “behind” are just as important as the people “in front.”
Questions for personal reflection or group discussion:
1. How do you see this topic relating to other personal boundary issues?
2. Read Matthew 20:1-16. Write or share your reactions.
Karen Spruill writes from Florida.© 2002 - 2019, AnswersForMe.org. All rights reserved. Click here for content usage information.