In case you haven’t noticed, alcohol and drugs aren’t the only kinds of emotional painkillers known to man. We all have ways of coping. Some …
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Speak Once, Then Act
Someone once suggested that the best guide to discipline is just four words long: “Speak once, then act.” My cousin Morris Venden once described an …
Read More »Be Consistent
Have you ever caught yourself disciplining your child today for something that last week you let slide? Or constantly changing the house rules because of …
Read More »Are You Trustworthy?
If you think your kids were born with an innate sense that they should trust you blindly, you are dead wrong. How you treat your …
Read More »Too Much Screen Time
When I was almost 40 and had been married for nearly 10 years, with three preschoolers and a teenager, it dawned on me that I …
Read More »Challenging Children
Eight-year-old Jessica was a challenging child. A bossy, fussy girl with only a few friends, she frustrated and alienated even those who loved her the …
Read More »The Accident
One day, I almost killed my children. And I don’t mean that figuratively. While driving 65mph on a major freeway in Southern California, I failed …
Read More »Someone Important
I used to be someone important. Formerly, I was a teacher educating a hundred kids each week. I loved my work. I loved the mentoring, …
Read More »When to Start School
Just because children typically start school or kindergarten at five or six years of age, and first grade at six or seven, doesn’t mean that …
Read More »Everyday Chores
Dear God: Okay, here’s my glamorous chore list for today. One: vacuum. Two: take those packages to the Post Office. Three: make a run to …
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